No eternal rewa…

No eternal reward will forgive us now for wasting the dawn

Check your privilege means I envy you. Check it and use it, having a checked privilege and feeling guilty about it rather than using it is the greatest sin ever!


Jedi Game

First you must unlearn what you have learned. Everything everyone ever told you about women, unlearn it.

The force, is within you, use it, till it enlightens everyone around you. All you have to do is realize that you can rule the world. You must love yourself more than anything else.

Make use of the Halo effect. When a girl sees me she knows what she will get when she fucks me, my walk, my posture, my words, they all say the same thing. This guy is a price. IOIs left and right, without even talking to a girl are common. Thanks to the Halo effect. Shine bright!

Now you can learn your natural game, not from books or looking what others do, but by going out there and flirting. That is the only way to establish a natural game, is it wrong to call it game? All you do is sell yourself, you do not fake anything.

Best of TRP

Greetings, everybody. Welcome to the red pill. We’ve got almost a hundred subscribers, in exactly two weeks! This is incredible.

Why have we grown so quickly?

Because there’s truth in the red pill. Because men are realizing that the sexual marketplace has shifted away from what we’ve been taught. Men who grew up over thirty years ago are discovering the world has changed. Men who are still growing up- from the 80s, 90s, and even the last decade, they’re starting to realize that what their parents taught them, what television and chick flicks taught them, what church and sunday school taught them… it’s all wrong.

Our culture has become a feminist culture. A president cannot be elected today without succumbing to the feminist narrative and paying them tribute. How many times has Obama given credit for his manhood to his wife? How many times has the debate hinged on women’s pay gap – which is a myth that gets lip service because if you don’t you’re a misogynist!

I’m not here to parade the concepts of Men’s Rights- nor am I here to discuss self-improvement tips that/r/seduction[1] now purports are to make you a better man, not get laid more often.

I am here to say, for better or for worse, the frame around public discourse is a feminist frame, and we’ve lost our identity because of it.

But this isn’t the end of the world. The world is changing, but men are still part of it. We just need to make sure we’re changing with it.

It’s too easy to blame feminism for our troubles.

Men, our happiness is our responsibility. Culture has always shifted, it’s dynamic and fluid. It has never and will never stay still.

Feminism was inevitable. Equal rights are something I strongly am in support of. For men and women.

Women have the right to pursue happiness. Nobody should tell them otherwise. Maximizing happiness is the goal of every living creature on this planet.

Men, we need to recognize that since women are rightfully seeking out happiness, evolutionary psychology is more relevant today than ever in the past century. (and possibly longer). We no longer run the show. And I, for one, don’t disagree that marriage had to change if we were to see equal rights.

But now it’s time to get serious and realize that our strategy needs to change. Feminism is a sexual strategy. It puts women into the best position they can find, to select mates, to determine when they want to switch mates, to locate the best dna possible, and to garner the most resources they can individually achieve.

The Red Pill is men’s sexual strategy. Reality[2] is happening, and we need to make sure that we adjust our strategy accordingly.

Welcome to the red pill. It’s a difficult pill to swallow, understanding that everything you were taught, everything you were lead to believe is a lie. But once you learn it, internalize it, and start living your new life, it gets better.

As an introduction to the topic, I want to outline what our focus is here at /r/theredpill[3] .

Mastering Game

Game is an important portion of a sexual strategy. A lot of you probably came here from /r/seduction[4] and are probably wondering why we’d need a new subreddit if one dedicated to game already exists. The reason is simple: Game is a facet of The Red Pill’s sexual strategy. Determining good game is impossible to do so without first understanding the context given by The Red Pill’s framework. Something I keep seeing over on the seduction subreddit is a problem taking over most relationship and sex forums: the desire to feminize the discussion (basically making it sound politically correct if read by a female).

Yes, game got a bad reputation from girls who demonize manipulation. This is because game is an effective strategy against their own sexual strategy. I believe women’s opposition to game can be attributed to the unconscious factors in women’s sexual strategy (Please do read Schedules of Mating[5]

When women started becoming vocal about their opposition to game, that’s when men decided it would be necessary to make game more politically correct. “Oh, we’re not here to manipulate women to have sex with us- we’re here to become better men!”

And thus, the female imperative took over game. When men think they must define their own sexual strategy in a way that best delivers results to the female sexual strategy, you know your own strategy will suffer! In a game of chess, do I politely not take out the oppositions’ queen in hopes not to offend or win the game?

Defining the Strategy[6]

Because of the necessity to have good game, we must define what good game is. A large portion of Red Pill discussion revolves around evolutionary psychology. Understanding the facets of this psychology are key to developing a good sexual strategy. Because this strategy is useful not only in gaining the attention of the opposite sex, but continuing relationships, having children, and maximizing your own happiness throughout life, I’m going to argue that defining the strategy outside of just “good game” is an important facet of Red Pill Discussion.

Acknowledging Reality[7]

Finally, I think our focus should always remain on ensuring that we challenge the reality we perceive and discuss precisely and objectively whether or not our beliefs line up with the testable results we can replicate. I am a firm believer that potential success can only be maximized by maximizing your knowledge of the factors surrounding your success. Keeping your eyes closed and ignoring evidence and facts will not benefit you. Opening your eyes and acknowledging everything no matter how good, bad, or painful it may seem, is instrumental in making decisions that will lead to the happiest, most successful outcomes.

Do it for your own mind

I tried to make it work, because the alternative is literally being alone.

You are already alone. Only you can give yourself meaning.

Even the meaning that you think females give you, you actually give yourself.

Your mental construct of what they are is far, far better than the reality of what they actually are. Nature gave you this imagination because it was faster than waiting for evolution to make actual females catch up to what you want them to be. Your subconscious takes you for a ride.

Think about it: Have any of them ever adjusted dials and knobs in your head to make you feel a particular way?

Of course not. Your brain did it by itself. Just like when you have dreams. Seeing the girl was only the jumping-off point. Your brain constructed a fantasy around that which it prefers to reality.

But it’s an insidious illusion, because the very act of trying to get lost in it is what makes it slip away. Yourbehaviors when “in love” are mostly the opposite of what will make her want to stay.

Women try to bitch you up — that is, emasculate you, take control, dominate you. They can’t even help it and most of them don’t even realize they are doing it.

They are endlessly testing you to see if you are still “stronger” than them. And as soon as you aren’t, they are thinking about their exit strategy.

To understand this view, you can’t think of yourself through YOUR eyes, you have to look at it from a third-party perspective.

Think of your favorite sports hero. Why do you like him? Because he’s the best. If he sucked, you wouldn’t like him.Right?

And if he starts to slip, his popularity will decline. Someone else becomes the new King of the Hill.

That’s essentially the same dynamic behind how women view you.

They are NOT there to fulfill you.

They are NOT there to be leaned on.

They are there to find the baddest dude around. The one who seems like he’s FAR ABOVE THEM.

And they only keep liking him IF he STAYS above them.

What does this mean?

You get a girl by treating her as LESS important than you. And you can never, ever stop. The day you stop is the day she loses interest.

You can never just lay back and think your work is done. She is wired to keep testing you every day, just like you are wired to wake up with wood.

You can never beg her not to leave you. You have to always seem like you are the prize, the one with options, the one who has a party going on in his own head, that she will miss out because your life is awesome.

In short, this requires self-confidence, and self-confidence requires YOU putting YOUR OWN idea of yourself above EVERYONE ELSE’S IN THE WORLD.

It doesn’t matter what your parents think, or friends think, or strangers, or the public, or your fans, and it ESPECIALLY doesn’t matter what WOMEN think.

You decide the model OF yourself FOR yourself, and NEVER incorporate any doubts from others that make you feel like you aren’t good enough. Don’t ask what anyone else thinks of you and don’t worry about it.

You decide what goals you have, and what changes you want to make to yourself, but this NEVER means you aren’t good enough in the present.

It doesn’t matter what you DO or DON’T have going for you externally at any moment. You don’t have options? You’ll GET options. You don’t have a party in your mind? You’ll make one. Your external life isn’t awesome yet? It will inevitably come to reflect your inner state. It can’t not. But it is only a reflection in a pond that swirls with many other outside forces that have nothing to do with you; do not mistake the reflection for reality. There are wars, famines, maybe an asteroid will strike, a tornado, earthquakes, volcanoes, tsunamis. The reflection will be turbulent in proportion to the environment.

Reflect on the fact that everyone you care about will die, and the deaths will pile up more and more as you get older. You must prepare for this psychologically in advance in order to avoid ego-based devastation. Because if you feel like you will be traumatized and never recover if person X dies, you are just giving up all your agency to some unknown future event, after which you will torment your own mind with unassuageable grief and anguish.

These are just behaviors like any others and are optional.

Sam Harris – Death and the Present Moment[1]

It takes time to adapt your mind to new ways of thinking. You won’t get it all at once, any more than going to the gym once changes your body. But all you have to do is put the demand there, and your mind and body will supercompensate (grow) to meet the demand.

BUT: You don’t do this FOR women. To get women. Or to meet women.

You do it for your OWN MIND, because it FEELS BETTER to be confident and sure of your own self than to be mired in self-doubt and feeling not-good-enough.