The red Pill is about self-improvement. The goal for most people is to become an alpha that pulls many women. Fine with me. The main focus will be on sexual strategy. Because lets be honest, the the core of the red pill is understanding the sexual market. Women want wealth, protection, security, commitment. Men want sex, a woman that would make a good wife/mother. Stop trying to change the world, this is not the mens right movement. This is just about you and your happiness.
Self-improvement only for women? http://i.imgur.com/13pOZnW.png
Sex is at the very bottom of the pyramid. The urge to reproduce can be satisfied with masturbation. Love and belonging not. Once you are not craving for sex and love, you can climb higher. Then you can start on real self-improvement.
How to get better with women?
Talk to them, approach them, ask them for their number. Dress better, maybe get fit, look better but get experience. Pick Up Artists use weird pick up lines all the time, I just say what is spooking around in my head, and it works. You will get better every single time you approach a woman. Everyone fails from time to time, learn from those failures instead of letting them pull you down. You have to be ready to fail, only then you will be able to learn something, and become independent to the outcome.
“I’d hold you up to say to your mother, “this kid’s gonna be the best kid in the world. This kid’s gonna be somebody better than anybody I ever knew.” And you grew up good and wonderful. It was great just watching you, every day was like a privilege. Then the time come for you to be your own man and take on the world, and you did. But somewhere along the line, you changed. You stopped being you. You let people stick a finger in your face and tell you you’re no good. And when things got hard, you started looking for something to blame, like a big shadow. Let me tell you something you already know. The world ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. It’s a very mean and nasty place and I don’t care how tough you are it will beat you to your knees and keep you there permanently if you let it. You, me, or nobody is gonna hit as hard as life. But it ain’t about how hard you’re hit. It’s about how hard you can get it and keep moving forward. How much you can take and keep moving forward. That’s how winning is done! Now if you know what you’re worth then go out and get what you’re worth. But ya gotta be willing to take the hits, and not pointing fingers saying you ain’t where you wanna be because of him, or her, or anybody! Cowards do that and that ain’t you! You’re better than that! I’m always gonna love you no matter what. No matter what happens. You’re my son and you’re my blood. You’re the best thing in my life. But until you start believing in yourself, ya ain’t gonna have a life. Don’t forget to visit your mother.” – Rocky Balboa
I can’t put it better, after a failure, stand up and try again. I don’t care if you have social anxiety, if you can’t talk to women, just don’t blame it on anyone but yourself. And that means, you have the power to change that, just do it, even if you vomit after saying hello, that one word will be a success if you are such a loser. Then after many approaches you will see the first results, talking/picking up women will become natural, maybe even a hobby. This will change your personality, you will become more confident and more success will follow. Just be yourself. This advice often is misunderstood. I tell you to be yourself, not the you that you imagine you are, or how people should see you, I mean the real you, the one that wants to have sex, that doesn’t care about little problems of other people. Do what pleases you, you don’t have to back down because it will hurt peoples feelings, they just don’t have a thick enough skin.
Success with women, the feeling of being wanted, spinning plates will make you more confident, more alpha, more independent.
What is spinning plates? This explains it quite well: http://therationalmale.com/2011/08/19/plate-theory-2/
And this all fits well into the theory of moar:
Lift moar! Approach moar! Spin moar plates! Next moar girls!
Lifting should make you more attractive, fit and confident.
Approaching will enhance your game, improve your confidence, make you more natural with women, get you started on spinning plates.
Spinning will make you independent, aloof/indifferent, destroy clingieness and oneitis
Nexting annoying girls will give you more time for the important things in life.