I don’t just think that I am the greatest guy on earth, I know that and I live that. And it works. I even would become gay if there was a perfect doppelganger of me.
+ it makes you pretty narcissistic and always wanting more. That could be one of the reasons I love to approach girls so much. Every time a girl looks at me and starts smiling I think that would be a great start for a romantic movie.
Misunderstanding most of what girls say for “I want your dick/You make me wet” is great and you won’t have second thoughts about her intentions. And you will miss less chances. It could happen that you think: “She said that because she wants to friendzone me”. But it could also be that she sucks at flirting. So don’t miss the chance. Another great side effect is coming over cocky.
1. Live your life in the best possible way according to you
4. Fuck Ostrich Bias, better late than never
5. Accept (and learn from) failures
We cannot teach people anything; we can only help them discover it within themselves. -Galileo Galilei
As I said before “be yourself”, the real you, the one you have locked up in your mind and never let out because you thought the world wants a different you.
Being yourself probably has not worked in the past years. This is because the mainstream media advice on dating is fucked up. Instead of living out your sexuality you tried to hide that you want to have sex with your date/friend. You suppressed your true self. How often did you sit next to a women and wanted to kiss her but didn’t do it because it would come off too pushy? She probably just waited for you to do it. Since girls are not allowed to make the first step.
You have been told women can’t be wrong, women don’t like sex, women are always right/nice/cute. Lies, every single one. You have been deceived to believe that. Every women who behaved differently was the exception. Instead of building your own opinion you adopted the one that has been shoved into your mind all the time. You didn’t think for yourself. You want women to be more than they are. They are just humans, but get treated like angels way too often. The man who doesn’t treat her like an angel is different, new, exciting. Don’t put a women on a pedestal, anyone on a pedestal has no other choice but to look down on you. Women love an honest man. You are not yourself when you think she is better than you and deserves everything for free. You are yourself when you think that she wants you, when you have no feelings of insecurity.
Seize every opportunity!
Don’t restrict yourself, don’t sacrifice your happiness for morals, don’t be a martyr, do what makes you happy.